Jennifer Lopez called herself a fool and breaks down in TEARS as she says what Ben Affleck made her go through DURING…. See More

Affleck’s demeanor was cited as a reason for his split from Jennifer, with sources claiming she grew tired of his mood.

‘Jenny has had enough and she really tried but she can do no more, it’s not getting any better, it’s worse,’ a music industry source told DailyMail.com last month.

The insider add that the main reason J.Lo, 54, left her 51-year-old husband was because he was always ‘grumpy and negative’ like Oscar The Grouch from Sesame Street.

Lopez was also said to be ‘shocked’ by the bad press she was getting, which she believes is not fair.

‘If people could see what she has really gone through they would be easier on her.The damning verdict was that Ben, 52, whose preferred activities in life away from the film studio and his family are smoking and eating Dunkin Donuts, is ‘not a lot of laughs’.

Added this was his ex-wife ‘Ben is a great guy but he can be grumpy and a downer … if they saw how it really was, they would not attack her.’

The source added: ‘He chain smokes and cusses and seems irritated a lot of the time. Great director and actor, but not a lot of laughs with him, you know? He is a wonderful father though.’

Sources previously pointed to the pressure of Ben’s career as one of the reasons behind his unpredictable mood.